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Teenage Girl 14/11/20(Thu)21:27 No. 20193 ID: 7e6ce7

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To her, I'm her best friend in the world. I'm the only family she's ever had. I'm one of the most important people in her life. Despite all of these feelings(and she's always known how I feel), she's just not in love with me.

To me, she's everything I've ever wanted. She's the woman I want to marry and spend the rest of my life with. Someone I love so much that I can't fathom doing anything that would hurt her or not having her in my life.

But every date she goes on, every possible relationship she gets excited about, every time she decides she's ready to have sex with a guy, is torture. Absolute torture. I was once homeless and I'd rather go through that again than to have to live these moments.

I don't know what to do. It's a moral dilemma. It's a personal dilemma. In protecting myself from this pain, I'd have to crush one of the most important people to me. One direction is extremely selfish. The other is extremely painful.

Teenage Girl 14/11/20(Thu)23:42 No. 20194 ID: 6f4809

Copy-pasta. Sage.

Teenage Girl 14/11/21(Fri)00:02 No. 20195 ID: e4ff78

Also hyper gay, doublesage.

Teenage Girl 15/04/09(Thu)11:06 No. 20470 ID: 4643f6

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It's that Gump Love. Sux hard. Why don't you try running to a different part of the world? You might find the view to be better there.

Teenage Girl 15/04/10(Fri)05:02 No. 20478 ID: f4b190

>It's a moral dilemma.

No it isn't. There's nothing right or wrong about serving your own best interests at no one's expense. Move the fuck on; she'll never know what happened to you and you'll find some other heartless bitch to obsess over.

If you're very lucky, you might even be a little less beta.

Teenage Girl 15/04/11(Sat)10:20 No. 20492 ID: 2f260d

That puppy is Iggy from JJBA; your argument is invalid.

Teenage Girl 15/04/14(Tue)13:56 No. 20556 ID: f1f181

I'm in love with my best friend. I'm like the big brother she never had. Someone she can lean on. She's like the little sister I never had. Someone to protect. It's nice, but damn I wish she was my girlfriend.

She already has a boyfriend, but if they ever break up, we'll have invested so much time in being friends, that I'm not counting on anything ever happening.

Oh well, time to suck it up and demonstrate some of that spine I always claim to have.

Teenage Girl 15/04/20(Mon)08:55 No. 20592 ID: 4643f6


ya, I agree. It's not a moral dilemma.

It's fairly straight forward, in my opinion...you either suck it up and get over it, and be the best friend you can be for her. Or, you can suck it up and get over it and not the best friend you can be for her.

Simple. Either way, you must move past it.

You can't make anyone like you, much less love you. All you can do is give them all the reasons to love or like you. If they don't after that, it's a mutual loss, but more so theirs, especially if you are a good person. Don't take it personally, because it probably isn't.

I don't know if you've ever been in the opposite circumstance where someone likes or loves you a great deal and you just do not feel the same way. It's too easy to reject them outright and it's too tempting (and not quite as easy, but still easy) to string them along just because you don't have the heart to tell them otherwise. But in the end, you want them to be mature and understanding and respectful about it, just as you will have to be. It's the best you can do: leaving a good memory rather than an ugly one.

And if all else fails, chop that bridge to splinters and set fire to it. Tell her how you feel, tell her you can't do it anymore, tell her you need your space. Move on and don't talk to her. We learn to reject those who hurt us, for better or worse. Out of sight, out of mind. Eventually that gaping wound will scab over with tougher scar tissue.

Teenage Girl 15/04/27(Mon)22:45 No. 20610 ID: d3ab35

i was in a same kind of situation. worse even, because when we first met, she had a crush on me and we ended up being together for half a year. i fell in love. sex and plans to move under a same roof.

then i fucked up, badly. i wont go into details (i didn't cheat on her or anything), but she got really pissed at me. she then said she just wants to be friends. and we were. for a year from that moment on, i was in a same situation as OP is.

then i decided to tell her to stay away from me. she was heartbroken, i knew i was the best friend she ever had, the one that could truly understand her. i just couldn't bare the awful pain i felt. i felt bad for her, but in time i forgot about it.

few weeks back, i met her in a bus. first i kinda freaked out, but then i went to talk to her. she told me how much she missed me and the long talks we used to have and everything. she had become depressed even. yet she was dating someone else now, and i could tell she felt no passion towrds me, but i still wanted to fuck her. so i told her that this was for the best and went away. i feel kinda bad for her, but atleast im not an emotional wreck and fucked up inside all the time.

OP, you need to let her go. you don't have to torture yourself, in fact, it's morally wrong to torture anybody, even yourself. and she needs to learn to let go too, and stand on her two own feet. don't think of it as a revenge, it's just something you HAVE to do. it's the morally right choise.

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