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Here's my unsolicited advice:

BE INTERESTED in the chick whoever it is. And once that's taken care of (only you know if you actually find her interesting in any romantic or platonic or any way whatsoever, but I mean REALLY interested, not halfheartedly maybe interested)(I don't mean that you know her, BUT YOU AT LEAST SEE POTENTIAL), once that's taken care of, just live your best life, GENUINELY your best life, don't even think about her, and if she when she gets in contact with you finds that life interesting and like she'd like to know more about it - GREAT allow her to learn more.

Never push stuff on people, especially not girls. You don't have to exaggerate or not be yourself, be authentic, but stop waiting for anything - LIVE YOUR LIFE and if she's interested in that, open that energy to her, allow her to be interested. If she's not interested, LIVE YOUR LIFE.

But make sure you're actually curious about the person in one way or another, otherwise, especially if it's just base chakra slop, you'll find that you're in a situation, but you don't actually give a fuck about her and if you're a good person, that's not a situation that you;ll want to find yourself in. If you're an asshole, you;ll just dump and move on, but if you care about her, you might drag it out or do some other dumb shit which is not gonna be good for you.

>>26229
Thanks, anime girl. I think that's very decent advice and I'm probably gonna reread it on occasion going forward with this.

I always love reading about post pubescent people whining about mild love problems.
I wish there were more threads about latte prime age adults struggling to find steady jobs/comfortable domicile

>>26231
Work and housing aren't issues at all for me right now. The only whining I really have left to do is about love.

>>26232
Ask yourself if a teen were to post love woes like this, would you find it acceptable. If the answer is no, then why do you find it acceptable to do so as an adult?

>>26235
u lowk a fag

>>26236
Idk man. I think that would be you

I refer you to >>5660.

>>26238
You're both fags and retards on top of that

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>>26235
I would find it acceptable, though. Whinging about love is a human tradition that spans thousands of years. Teens do it in droves, adults do it, everybody does it. Also it's quite literally what this board is designed for, so get fucked lol.

>>26240
The problem is, the only form of love that’s constantly chased after is ROMANTIC love.
Familial and fraternal love are dismissed as consolation prizes.

I especially see how society treats friendships as juvenile vices to be grown out of.

Yet, friends are the ones who often help you out. Whether it be a place to vent, some financial support, job offers, etc

Lovers will often blindside you and demand you to cut off your friends and family just because they don’t see eye-to-eye.

People say teenage love is shallow and unstable but adult romance is has abysmal depths of angst and reminiscence and codependency.
In adulthood romance, you’re always being compared to previous partners and are expected to act more as some caretaker rather than as a partner.

Honestly, romantic relationships are glamorized as some mandatory amenity. Romantic love has more discrimination and objectification than lust.
Tbh it’s partially justified.
Romantic love is about giving up your privacy and assets to another person for some emotional gratification.

People complain about dating being like a job interviews but that’s how it’s supposed to be.
How many people often end up with abusers or leeches as partners?
And if said partners aren’t abusers or leeches, they’re just seen as boring out-of-fashion trinkets that need to be ditched temporarily for some flings.

I cannot count how many times I hear people complaining about how their love lives are boring and need slicing up.
And yet these same people will complain about their partners having “questionable fetishes” that end up tarnishing their impression of fidelity.

>>26239
I'm not the dickhead coming to 7chan for relationship advice in a rage board with a pinned post telling you specifically not to do this shit.

>>26242
It's ok, we're all human, some may have relationship stuff going on, probably all.

Also he wasn't asking for advice, I just gave it unprompted.

One day we're gonna be less enraged by our own stupidity, until then, just know that the Christian god Jesus loves us all. He died on the cross to save us from our sins, that's how much he loved us.

Namaste
Enjoy life guys, this is very short